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CBT has the largest evidence base (2,000+ trials), but that doesn't mean it's right for everyone. DBT is the gold standard for borderline personality disorder. EMDR rivals CBT for trauma. Ketamine works within 24 hours for treatment-resistant depression. The best therapy depends on your condition, preferences, and access.
Note: This guide is for educational purposes. It doesn't replace professional assessment. If you're in crisis, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988) or go to your nearest emergency room.
At a glance
| Therapy | Best for | Timeline | Evidence |
|---|---|---|---|
| Talk therapy | Depression, personality patterns | Months to years | Good |
| CBT | Depression, anxiety, OCD, phobias | 6-20 weeks | Excellent |
| DBT | BPD, chronic suicidality, self-harm | 6+ months | Excellent |
| EMDR | PTSD, trauma | 8-12 sessions | Strong |
| Somatic | Trauma with body symptoms | Variable | Emerging |
| Ketamine | Treatment-resistant depression | 4-12 weeks | Good |
| Psychedelics | TRD, PTSD (clinical trials) | Variable | Emerging |
The therapies, compared
Talk therapy (psychodynamic)
Good evidenceHistorical origins
Founded by Sigmund Freud in the 1890s. The term "psychoanalysis" was introduced in 1896, and Freud's The Interpretation of Dreams (1900) marked the formal beginning of the field. Emerged during a period of growing interest in how unconscious processes shape behavior.
How it works: Explores unconscious patterns—often rooted in childhood—that influence present behavior. Uses the therapeutic relationship itself as a tool for insight. Key concepts include defense mechanisms, transference, and the id/ego/superego framework.
The evidence: Jonathan Shedler's 2010 meta-analysis in American Psychologist established psychodynamic therapy as evidence-based, with adequate effect sizes for depression and anxiety. Benefits often continue growing after treatment ends—a "sleeper effect" not always seen with other therapies.
Best for
- • Depression and anxiety
- • Personality patterns
- • Relationship issues
- • Those seeking deep self-understanding
Limitations
- • Less effective for OCD, PTSD
- • Long duration and higher cost
- • Less structured than CBT
- • Harder to measure progress
Key sources:
• Shedler (2010): "The Efficacy of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy" — American Psychologist
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
Excellent evidenceHistorical origins
Developed by Aaron Beck, MD in the 1960s at the University of Pennsylvania. Beck, a trained psychoanalyst, noticed that depressed patients had streams of automatic negative thoughts. He developed a structured approach to identify and challenge these thought patterns.
How it works: Based on the principle that thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are interconnected. Identifies distorted thinking patterns (catastrophizing, black-and-white thinking, etc.) and replaces them with more balanced thoughts. Present-focused, goal-oriented, and typically includes homework.
The evidence: The most studied therapy, with over 2,000 clinical trials. A 2006 meta-analysis of 16 rigorous meta-analyses found large effect sizes for depression (g=0.71), generalized anxiety, panic disorder, social phobia, and PTSD. CBT is somewhat superior to antidepressants for depression and has better long-term durability.
Best for
- • Depression and anxiety
- • OCD, phobias, panic disorder
- • Sleep issues, PTSD
- • Those wanting structured, time-limited treatment
Limitations
- • May not address deep unconscious patterns
- • Requires active engagement and homework
- • Can feel mechanical for some
- • Less effective for personality disorders
Key sources:
• Butler et al. (2006): Meta-analysis of 16 meta-analyses — Clinical Psychology Review
• Beck Institute: Training and research center
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
Excellent for BPDHistorical origins
Created by Dr. Marsha Linehan at the University of Washington in the late 1980s. Developed specifically for chronically suicidal individuals with borderline personality disorder—patients considered "untreatable" at the time. Linehan later publicly disclosed her own BPD diagnosis, helping reduce stigma.
How it works: Combines CBT techniques with acceptance, mindfulness, and dialectics (balancing change with validation). Four skill modules: mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, emotion regulation, and distress tolerance. Full DBT includes individual therapy, skills groups, phone coaching, and therapist consultation teams.
The evidence: Eight published RCTs demonstrate efficacy for BPD. A two-year trial showed DBT patients were half as likely to attempt suicide as those in community treatment. 71% of patients with comorbid PTSD no longer met PTSD criteria after DBT with prolonged exposure protocol.
Best for
- • Borderline personality disorder
- • Chronic suicidality, self-harm
- • Severe emotion dysregulation
- • Eating disorders, substance use
Limitations
- • Long commitment (6+ months minimum)
- • Requires multiple components (often unavailable)
- • Expensive due to complexity
- • May be overkill for less severe cases
Key sources:
• Linehan et al. (2015): "DBT for high suicide risk in BPD" — JAMA Psychiatry
• Peter Attia's Episode #219 with Shireen Rizvi on DBT
EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)
Strong for traumaHistorical origins
Discovered by Francine Shapiro, PhD in the late 1980s. While walking in a park, Shapiro noticed that moving her eyes back and forth seemed to reduce the disturbance of troubling memories. She systematized this observation into a formal therapy protocol and published her PhD thesis in the Journal of Traumatic Stress in 1989.
How it works: An eight-phase treatment using bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or sounds) while processing traumatic memories. Based on the Adaptive Information Processing model—the idea that psychopathology stems from inadequately processed traumatic memories that get "stuck."
The evidence: 24 randomized controlled trials support its efficacy for trauma. Recognized as a best practice by the VA, Department of Defense, WHO, and International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies. Systematic reviews show EMDR is equivalent to trauma-focused CBT approaches like prolonged exposure.
The eye movement controversy: Critics note that studies comparing EMDR to fixed-eye-gaze conditions found no difference—suggesting the eye movements may not be the active ingredient. The therapy likely works through exposure and cognitive elements rather than bilateral stimulation specifically.
Best for
- • PTSD (primary indication)
- • Single-incident trauma
- • Complex trauma
- • Those wanting faster trauma processing
Limitations
- • Eye movements may not be essential
- • Limited evidence for anxiety, panic
- • Less effective within 1 month of trauma
- • Requires trained specialist
Key sources:
• de Jongh et al. (2024): "State of the Science: EMDR Therapy" — Journal of Traumatic Stress
• EMDR Institute: Training and resources
Somatic therapy (somatic experiencing)
Emerging evidenceHistorical origins
Developed by Peter A. Levine, PhD over 40+ years of trauma work. His book Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma popularized the approach. Emerged from observations of how animals in the wild naturally recover from life-threatening events through instinctive bodily responses.
How it works: A body-oriented approach based on the idea that trauma gets "stored" in the nervous system, not just the mind. Uses attention to internal bodily sensations (interoception), body position (proprioception), and kinesthetic awareness. Aims to release protective freeze/fight/flight responses that remain trapped after trauma.
The evidence: A 2021 scoping review found initial but promising evidence for treating PTSD. However, only 5 studies met scientific rigor standards, and 2 of those lacked adequate control groups. The research is genuinely promising but requires more unbiased RCTs before drawing firm conclusions.
Best for
- • PTSD and complex trauma
- • Trauma with physical symptoms
- • Those who've struggled with talk therapy
- • Body-aware individuals
Limitations
- • Limited rigorous evidence
- • "Body-stored trauma" concept debated
- • Practitioner training varies widely
- • Some practitioners use touch (boundary concerns)
Key sources:
• Scoping review (2021): Somatic experiencing effectiveness — PMC
Ketamine therapy
Good evidenceHistorical origins
Ketamine was first synthesized in 1962 and FDA-approved for anesthesia. Over the past 15+ years, research has focused on its rapid-acting antidepressant effects. In 2019, the FDA approved esketamine (Spravato) for treatment-resistant depression. In January 2025, the label was expanded to allow esketamine as monotherapy (without a required oral antidepressant).
How it works: Blocks NMDA glutamate receptors, triggering downstream effects on neuroplasticity. Unlike SSRIs, which take weeks to work, ketamine shows antidepressant effects within 24 hours. It's administered via IV infusion (off-label) or nasal spray (FDA-approved esketamine).
The evidence: 70% of treatment-resistant depression patients improved with esketamine plus oral antidepressant vs. 50% without. Over 50% show significant symptom reduction within 24 hours. Repeat doses maintain benefits for 2+ months. Emerging evidence for alcohol use disorder (86% maintained abstinence in one 2025 study).
Best for
- • Treatment-resistant depression
- • Acute suicidal ideation (rapid response)
- • Failed 2+ antidepressant trials
- • Chronic pain (emerging)
Limitations
- • Expensive; often not covered by insurance
- • Dissociative side effects during treatment
- • Abuse potential (Schedule III)
- • Limited long-term safety data
Key sources:
• Yale Medicine: How ketamine helps depression
• Vekhova et al. (2025): Ketamine clinical trials review
Psychedelic-assisted therapy (psilocybin, MDMA)
Emerging evidenceHistorical origins
Psilocybin has been used in Mesoamerican indigenous ceremonies for centuries. Modern psychiatric research began in the 1950s-60s but halted after prohibition. MDMA was synthesized in 1912 and used therapeutically in the 1970s before becoming Schedule I. Both have seen a research renaissance since the 2010s, with FDA granting "breakthrough therapy" designations.
How it works: Psilocybin activates serotonin 5-HT2A receptors, promoting neuroplasticity and disrupting the default mode network (associated with rumination). MDMA increases empathy, emotional openness, and trust—combined with psychotherapy to process traumatic memories. Both require trained therapist support and preparation/integration sessions.
The evidence: Preliminary 2025 data shows 71% of PTSD patients experience lasting relief with MDMA-assisted therapy; 58% achieve depression remission with psilocybin at 12 months. As of April 2024, 134+ psilocybin trials are registered across 54 potential indications. However, the FDA denied MDMA approval in August 2024 citing data reliability concerns, requesting additional trials.
Legal status (January 2026): Psilocybin remains Schedule I federally. California AB 1103 (effective January 1, 2026) fast-tracks psychedelics research for PTSD/depression. New Mexico has legalized a regulated market. Access is currently limited primarily to clinical trials.
Best for
- • Treatment-resistant PTSD
- • Treatment-resistant depression
- • End-of-life anxiety
- • Those open to novel approaches
Limitations
- • Limited access (mostly clinical trials)
- • Legal restrictions in most states
- • Likely expensive when commercialized
- • Not suitable for psychosis history
Key sources:
• FDA (2023): Draft guidance for psychedelic clinical trials
How to choose
Key factors to consider when selecting a therapy approach
Start with your primary concern
Depression or anxiety
CBT is the default first choice—widest evidence, most accessible, fastest
PTSD or trauma
EMDR or trauma-focused CBT; somatic if body symptoms are prominent
Borderline personality disorder
DBT is the gold standard—specifically designed for this
Treatment-resistant depression
Ketamine for rapid response; psychedelics if eligible for trials
Chronic suicidality or self-harm
DBT—the only therapy specifically developed for this population
Deep pattern exploration
Psychodynamic therapy if you have time and seek self-understanding
Consider your constraints
- Time: CBT and EMDR are typically 8-20 sessions. DBT and psychodynamic therapy take months to years.
- Cost: CBT is most widely covered by insurance. Ketamine and psychedelics are expensive and often not covered. DBT is expensive due to multiple components.
- Access: CBT therapists are most common. DBT requires specialized training and team structure. Psychedelics are mostly limited to clinical trials.
- Style preference: Want structure and homework? CBT. Want to explore your past? Psychodynamic. Want body-based work? Somatic or EMDR.
The therapeutic relationship matters most
Research consistently shows that the quality of the therapeutic relationship—feeling understood, safe, and connected with your therapist—is one of the strongest predictors of outcome, regardless of modality. If a therapy isn't working after 6-8 sessions, it may be worth trying a different therapist or approach.
Our take: Don't agonize over picking the "perfect" therapy. Start with what's accessible and evidence-based for your condition. Pay attention to how you feel with your therapist. Be willing to switch if it's not working.
A note on insurance and access
Under the Affordable Care Act, all ACA-compliant plans must cover mental health treatment including psychotherapy. Parity laws require that mental health benefits can't have more restrictive limits than medical/surgical benefits. In practice, you'll typically pay a copay or coinsurance.
What's typically covered: CBT, DBT, psychodynamic therapy, EMDR (all with in-network providers). Telehealth is widely covered.
What's often not covered: Ketamine infusions (IV ketamine is off-label), psychedelic therapy (experimental), and some specialized somatic therapy practitioners. Esketamine (Spravato) nasal spray may be covered for treatment-resistant depression.
Primary sources
Key publications and resources we drew from for this guide
Butler et al. (2006)
CBT meta-analysis of meta-analyses
Shedler (2010)
Psychodynamic therapy efficacy
Linehan et al. (2015)
DBT for high suicide risk in BPD
The Drive #219
Peter Attia on DBT
Additional sources
- de Jongh et al. (2024) — State of the Science: EMDR Therapy
- PMC (2021) — Somatic experiencing scoping review
- Yale Medicine — How ketamine helps depression
- FDA (2023) — Psychedelic clinical trials guidance
Change log
- January 2026: Initial publication